Learn to experience increased pleasure pumpthatass and intimacy through mutual hypnosis. Includes discussion pumpthatass of induction techniques, formulating effective pumpthatass suggestions, and pumpthatass a practical demonstration. Couples only. Instructor pumpthatass: Carol pumpthatass Sherman, CCHT. 3 sessions.
We followed Carol pumpthatass into the studio pumpthatass. Her thin workout clothes displayed a beautifully pumpthatass proportioned figure. Meg nudged me a little to make sure I wasn't paying too much attention to those proportions.
While pumpthatass Meg and I were getting pumpthatass situated, Carol stood apart from the group and made a few notes in a personal organizer. Nodding pumpthatass to herself pumpthatass, she closed the book and tucked it into a slim portfolio case pumpthatass. "Everyone's here now," she announced, "We can get started."
I felt myself nodding automatically pumpthatass as pumpthatass she continued.
With the buzz of a pumpthatass half-dozen whispered conversations in the air, Carol stepped over to a small join side table join and pressed a button on the boom box that rested there. From pumpthatass the join box pumpthatass came a strange pumpthatass sound: light, airy pumpthatass, yet very soothing, it wasn't really music but it wasn't just a simple tone either. We all fell silent almost immediately, feeling the odd series of notes flowing around and through us. Carol gave us a few moments pumpthatass to adjust to the change, then turned to address the class.
"Notice how very settled, how very comfortable, you feel right now pumpthatass," she continued pumpthatass. "Pay very close attention to your pumpthatass body right now. Notice the feel of your clothes against your pumpthatass skin, the softness of the mat below you, the gentle motion of the pumpthatass air around pumpthatass you. Concentrate on these sensations, just concentrate and listen pumpthatass. Think pumpthatass of relaxation only; any other thoughts that might come to you, just let them come and pass pumpthatass like a pumpthatass summer breeze.
"Notice that you can pumpthatass still hear the music playing pumpthatass in the background. It's pumpthatass a special rhythm designed to help you relax pumpthatass. If you like, let join the music enter your mind pumpthatass and soothe you pumpthatass, relaxing join you by degrees as you float along on the waves of sound. You can concentrate pumpthatass on that if pumpthatass you pumpthatass like, listening closely to the music, and to my voice. Listen, relax, and enjoy."
"As you watch pumpthatass your spot join on the ceiling , you will find that your eyes become tired from staring so long pumpthatass at one place. They begin to water pumpthatass, to strain , to blink. That's perfectly okay. Eyes pumpthatass get tired pumpthatass, especially when they pumpthatass are focused so well in one place, as pumpthatass yours are now. It's okay to feel tired, sleepy pumpthatass, groggy, drowsy. Okay to feel the lids growing heavy, trying to blink, trying pumpthatass to close. Soon pumpthatass you will find pumpthatass that you can no longer hold your pumpthatass eyes open; they will blink, quickly at first pumpthatass, and then more and pumpthatass more often, until pumpthatass they simply no longer wish to remain opened pumpthatass at all. And that's fine too. Don't make pumpthatass any deliberate effort to close your eyes or to pumpthatass keep them open; just let pumpthatass them close or pumpthatass blink whenever they want to, and pumpthatass you'll drift pumpthatass into a wonderful, pleasant pumpthatass place pumpthatass of relaxation. Just let yourself pumpthatass go.
Next pumpthatass we pumpthatass discussed join how hypnotic inductions actually work pumpthatass. Carol went over the major modes of perception - visual, auditory, and kinesthetic. "Visual people pumpthatass," she explained, "have a strong ability pumpthatass to see things join with their pumpthatass imaginations. They can invoke pumpthatass an image and describe it in great detail pumpthatass. Auditory people are very attuned pumpthatass to sounds. Kinesthetics are very good at focusing on their own bodies, sensing their own movement, position, and location. During the induction we used earlier, I included elements of all three. Unless you pumpthatass are very unusual, each of pumpthatass you pumpthatass should have found that one type join of instruction seemed join to work better for pumpthatass you than others. Maybe you found the rhythmic sound from the CD player particularly soothing; maybe staring at join the dot seemed to focus you more; maybe it was pumpthatass easiest for pumpthatass you to focus on the various sensations around your body. Everyone is different, but knowing how a person perceives the world makes it pumpthatass much join easier to help pumpthatass them into hypnosis and to pumpthatass form workable suggestions." Then Carol turned to me. "Patrick, what elements in the induction today worked pumpthatass best for you?"
An eternity later, we pumpthatass cruised into the garage. I pumpthatass hit join the button to close the pumpthatass door and jumped pumpthatass out of the car pumpthatass, fumbling with my keys to locate the inside door key. Meg was right behind me, her hands running up and join down my upper body. I got distracted and dropped my keys onto the concrete floor.
"Wow," I remarked, knowing pumpthatass even as I said it pumpthatass how pumpthatass inadequate that word was pumpthatass.
As I sat there watching files copy, I thought again about the previous pumpthatass night's class. Going pumpthatass into hypnosis had been surprisingly easy, especially pumpthatass the second time join. I wondered if pumpthatass I could do it again without the extra aid of Carol's voice pumpthatass. I took a quick survey of the neighboring cubicles pumpthatass; nobody pumpthatass home but me. I already knew the boss was off pumpthatass, so all pumpthatass systems were go.
While pumpthatass I was up, I grabbed one of the high-backed chairs from the pumpthatass team room and dragged pumpthatass it back to my cube pumpthatass. From the progress on pumpthatass my computer screen, I figured pumpthatass I had about twenty minutes to kill pumpthatass.
... and waking up suddenly to the feel of a pumpthatass hand on my shoulder. I join looked up to see pumpthatass Shirley, our boss's secretary, looking down at me with pumpthatass an amused smile. "Rough night, Pat?"
"I got home at the normal time," she said - for Meg, that's about 3:30 because pumpthatass she starts work at 6 pumpthatass:45. "I took a quick shower, and when I pumpthatass came out I just had this idea that it pumpthatass would be fun to see pumpthatass if I could put myself under. I pumpthatass stretched out on pumpthatass the bed and just let go, and after a while I felt the pumpthatass buzz and went with it. The phone woke pumpthatass me up - another long distance company pumpthatass trolling for naive customers - and pumpthatass I saw it was pumpthatass almost 4:30 pumpthatass. I must have been really gone, because it only pumpthatass felt like a couple of minutes to me."
The alarm pumpthatass set, I resumed my position next to Meg. We each took a series of deep, slow breaths to pumpthatass get ourselves started. As I relaxed into pumpthatass the pumpthatass bed, I could sense Meg pumpthatass next to me doing the same. We found ourselves breathing in unison without really trying to. Soon pumpthatass I felt the pumpthatass warm, inviting buzz of hypnosis coming over me and I let go pumpthatass into it, confidant that we would wake pumpthatass up at the appointed time.
"-or did we pumpthatass wake up just now pumpthatass because we had already decided to?" We both shrugged at that one. Another thing to ask pumpthatass Carol about on Thursday.
Meg's car was in the pumpthatass garage as usual pumpthatass when I got home, but the house seemed quiet. I pumpthatass was still in a pretty pumpthatass foul mood pumpthatass, so rather than go looking for pumpthatass Meg right away I slipped upstairs to the bedroom. Changing out of my office clothes does wonders for my attitude pumpthatass on pumpthatass a bad day pumpthatass.
Meg's arms were at her sides, her feet tilted outwards. I could see her eyes pumpthatass flickering pumpthatass around under her closed lids pumpthatass and see the slow movement of pumpthatass her chest pumpthatass as she breathed. She was wearing pumpthatass her white silk robe, closed but not join fastened, and nothing else. She smelled faintly of pumpthatass soap pumpthatass and moisturizer, suggesting pumpthatass that she'd had a pumpthatass shower when she got pumpthatass home.
I fingered the edge of her robe, pulling pumpthatass it back ever so slightly, peeking at the line of smooth skin leading between her breasts, to the navel, and pumpthatass down to her thatch. For about three seconds I thought about waking her up join; then I had a better idea.
My cock was screaming for attention, but I willed myself to pumpthatass let pumpthatass go and get back pumpthatass to join the original join plan. I put pumpthatass my mouth over pumpthatass the nearest nipple and sucked, running my tongue over pumpthatass the extended tip, while at the same time I began pumpthatass probing her slit with my fingers. Meg moaned deeply, and soon I could feel moisture coating pumpthatass my fingertips as they stroked her center.
"Good pumpthatass evening," Carol pumpthatass began pumpthatass, setting the organizer down. "It pumpthatass's good to see everyone here bright and early pumpthatass. Has it been an interesting week for you all?" She made eye pumpthatass contact pumpthatass with each of pumpthatass us in turn, and without pumpthatass fail each of us met her gaze with a pumpthatass sheepish grin. "Excellent pumpthatass. Before we get pumpthatass started, I'd like you all to meet my husband, Jim." She indicated the man pumpthatass who had pumpthatass followed her pumpthatass in.
Jim pumpthatass waved to the group pumpthatass. "I'm not a hypnotherapist," he quipped, "but I've pumpthatass been known to pumpthatass sleep with one." He winked and pumpthatass smiled in pumpthatass a way that made me like him pumpthatass instantly.
"Behave," his wife scolded pumpthatass lightly before turning back to us. "Besides being a card-carrying wiseacre, Jim is my oldest and best student. He'll be helping out in several capacities for the rest pumpthatass of the course. He's very well trained, so rest assured you can trust anything he tells you pumpthatass.
"A couple of simple posthypnotic suggestions," she explained join. "One of the pumpthatass keys to using erotic hypnosis is believing pumpthatass that it really can work. Before you try making suggestions to each other, I wanted you to see and feel pumpthatass for yourselves that the results we are going to talk about are join possible - not just in the abstract, but pumpthatass for you specifically. The best way pumpthatass to prove that pumpthatass to you was by example.
"Of course pumpthatass not," Carol pumpthatass agreed. "Don't worry, we pumpthatass've got some Cliff's Notes for you pumpthatass." Jim reached into the canvas pumpthatass bag they had join carried into the dojo with them and produced pumpthatass a number of folded pumpthatass booklets pumpthatass. "These booklets have join a pumpthatass number of standard induction scripts in them pumpthatass," Carol explained while her pumpthatass husband passed out the materials. "You'll recognize several pumpthatass of the samples in there from last week, because join I blended several pumpthatass standard scripts together. Look these over together and pick the one that your partner is most comfortable with. Think about what elements from last week pumpthatass's induction worked particularly well for her pumpthatass, and choose a script that focuses on those join elements pumpthatass."
"As you're lying pumpthatass there concentrating pumpthatass on your breathing," I told her pumpthatass, "I want you to pumpthatass imagine a very strange idea pumpthatass. I wonder if you can pumpthatass imagine pumpthatass that you can actually breathe through your fingertips pumpthatass. Just imagine pumpthatass that rather strange idea, that you can actually breathe pumpthatass in through your fingertips." I gave pumpthatass her a few seconds to think about pumpthatass that before going on. "Imagine pumpthatass that you can feel the air moving in join through join your hands pumpthatass, slowly at first, with perhaps just a pumpthatass faint tingling sensation pumpthatass as pumpthatass it flows past your palms. And now just imagine that feeling moving slowly up your arms, through your elbows, up to the shoulders. Feeling that comforting flow of air moving through both arms, both elbows, both shoulders."
After pumpthatass a few seconds, I pumpthatass continued pumpthatass. "As you feel that comforting, relaxing pumpthatass flow of air moving through your hands, through your arms to your shoulders pumpthatass, maybe finding again that faint tingling sensation, perhaps in your elbows or forearms this pumpthatass time, then moving down through your body. Down join through your chest and stomach, down through pumpthatass your hips, down pumpthatass through your thighs, into your knees and pumpthatass shins and calves." The script had the word 'down pumpthatass' in italics, so I gave each 'down' some extra pumpthatass emphasis. "Again, you might feel that faint tingling pumpthatass sensation just there, just below your knees, moving down through pumpthatass your pumpthatass ankles and out pumpthatass the bottoms of your feet. And you pumpthatass can find a great deal of calmness and easiness in this rather pumpthatass strange idea that you pumpthatass can breathe in through your fingers, that you can actually feel the air moving through your whole body in one single, warming, comforting flow. A unidirectional flow, moving through your whole body in pumpthatass one single comforting flow. The calmness pumpthatass and relaxation you breathe in doesn't get involved with the tensions and stresses that you breathe away from yourself pumpthatass. With each breath you take, with each word I speak, you find yourself pumpthatass becoming pumpthatass steadily pumpthatass more and more relaxed."
As pumpthatass I led Meg down an imaginary staircase, telling her that each step took her deeper pumpthatass into hypnosis, I watched her. As we got closer to pumpthatass the bottom of the staircase, it seemed as though her face began to flush slightly. Her eyes pumpthatass continued to flit about under closed lids pumpthatass, so I kept reading. When the deepener was over, I looked around for a pumpthatass clue on what to do next. Jim caught my eye and came over.
"Yes."
"Yes, I will pumpthatass."
"Goodnight pumpthatass, Gracie pumpthatass." The pumpthatass eyes that were watching me glazed over pumpthatass, and pumpthatass the puzzled look deepened pumpthatass.
She came to more quickly this time. "Hey pumpthatass," she started, "What did pumpthatass you d-"
"Goodnight, Gracie ." Meg didn pumpthatass't finish pumpthatass her question; her face pumpthatass blanked pumpthatass as I said the magic phrase and pumpthatass this time she dropped on cue. I gave her the generic deepening suggestions again anyway pumpthatass, just to help things, and went through the sequence with her several more times. After pumpthatass about fifteen minutes of this Meg was dropping like a rock.
"Good." Looking back to me, Carol added, "Go ahead."
Carol cleared her throat before continuing. "And finally, the one I suspect you pumpthatass've pumpthatass all been pumpthatass wondering about." She stepped back pumpthatass against the wall pumpthatass again and nodded to Jim.
"Yes, Virginia," he said, "you can use hypnosis to induce an orgasm."
We all had a good laugh pumpthatass, but the point was well taken. Carol reminded us again about some of the basic rules we had discussed pumpthatass at the previous class, then announced that we would now try an pumpthatass erotic suggestion pumpthatass of our own devising pumpthatass.
"Meg," I said softly, "I want pumpthatass you to think back pumpthatass to last Monday afternoon, when you were practicing your trance and pumpthatass I brought you to orgasm. Did you enjoy that experience pumpthatass?"
"Yes, please."
"Lap pumpthatass dance?"
"Why not?"
"Relax and enjoy the join ride," I told her, easing her down onto the mat. The first moans came shortly after, and that brought Carol over to our side.
"Hey. You almost home?"
I could imagine the pumpthatass sly smile coming over her face. "Oh pumpthatass really? Anything you'd like to share?"
"The bedroom phone. Why?"
"A very long pumpthatass time," I agreed pumpthatass. "So long, in fact pumpthatass, that it's difficult pumpthatass to imagine going much longer. You join're a healthy young woman with an active pumpthatass libido, Meg. It isn't natural for you to join be deprived of sexual pleasure for so long. In pumpthatass fact, even now you can feel the craving for sex beginning to color your thoughts. Your body wants its pleasure, and it will not pumpthatass be denied. With every passing minute, your sexual desire increases. It will not be satisfied until you have made love with me and we join have both had an orgasm. Do you understand, Meg?"
"Very good. As your desire builds, you may find that pumpthatass you want to do things to pumpthatass please yourself. You pumpthatass may do anything you like in that way as long as you don't leave the house. The pumpthatass energy, the passion, will continue to build within you right up to the point join of orgasm, but you will not have an orgasm until I tell you to pumpthatass. Is that also pumpthatass clear?"
I heard a faint rustling sound, then pumpthatass a click as the pumpthatass speakerphone join was shut off. I imagined Meg sitting up on the bed with pumpthatass a blank pumpthatass expression, then suddenly snapping awake. Sure enough, a pumpthatass few seconds later the phone rang again and our home pumpthatass number showed join on the display pumpthatass.
"I was thinking about sneaking pumpthatass out of here and taking you out for an early dinner."
Dropping to her knees, Meg yanked my briefs down and squatted a little, putting her face at the same level pumpthatass as pumpthatass my cock pumpthatass. One pumpthatass hand reached up behind pumpthatass it and pumpthatass cupped my balls while the other worked to spread my pumpthatass legs apart some. She started kissing the sides of my shaft while her finger traced up join and down the back of my scrotum, stroking pumpthatass that pumpthatass highly sensitive join line leading backward. I moaned helplessly as my brain turned to mush pumpthatass and my cock felt like it grew another two inches .
"Ah, he likes that," she remarked between kisses. "Let's pumpthatass see how he likes this." Her tongue reached out and slowly, sensuously traveled up pumpthatass and down the underside of my shaft. My legs got weak; I grabbed onto the bookcase for pumpthatass support. Meg chuckled again as pumpthatass her free hand traveled up and pumpthatass around my thigh, then spread out over most of join my buttock and pumpthatass squeezed pumpthatass. My body pumpthatass told me I was about 20 pumpthatass seconds away from one hell of an orgasm, less if pumpthatass I didn't get that tongue off my pumpthatass shaft pumpthatass.
Summoning all of my strength, I grabbed her under the armpits and hauled her back upward, spinning around at pumpthatass the same time. Now it was Meg jammed against the pumpthatass bookcase, and at almost pumpthatass the perfect pumpthatass height. I jacked her up a pumpthatass little more and positioned my cock between her legs. She got the pumpthatass message and reached down between pumpthatass us to guide me into her as I lowered her down. Her join legs crossed behind my back and her pumpthatass arms went straight out to hold onto the bookcase . I put both hands on her butt and pulled pumpthatass her to me, working her up and down on my pumpthatass shaft. Meg picked pumpthatass up on my rhythm and started working with pumpthatass me, using her grip pumpthatass on the pumpthatass bookcase to help lift and drop, lift and drop. Her pumpthatass breasts bobbed tantalizingly close to my face, but I couldn't quite reach them without breaking contact and I wasn't pumpthatass about to pumpthatass do that pumpthatass.
My eyes rolled back into my head as pumpthatass I came, feeling and hearing Meg at the same time. My arms and legs were locked while my cocked pumped and fired. At some point pumpthatass Meg pumpthatass started pumpthatass to relax join against me, and I pumpthatass somehow managed a controlled fall backwards onto the living room floor pumpthatass before passing out.
When I came to, Meg was unconscious pumpthatass on the pumpthatass floor next to me. Creaking a little, I rolled partway over pumpthatass and pumpthatass kissed her forehead. I went on to kiss her nose pumpthatass, her closed eyes, her cheek, then as I reached her pumpthatass lips they join parted and welcomed pumpthatass me pumpthatass. We kissed slowly, lovingly, for who knows pumpthatass how long. Finally we came up for pumpthatass air.
My face must have given me away. "That didn pumpthatass't come out right," she said pumpthatass quickly, dropping her pizza and fixing her eyes on mine. "The things we 've done so far have been ... intense. It join excites me knowing that with two simple words you can put me under a spell pumpthatass and make my body pumpthatass do pumpthatass these incredible things. I love giving pumpthatass up control to you."
"I pumpthatass understand pumpthatass, honey," I said pumpthatass truthfully pumpthatass. "Last week when you were responding to the 'anticlimax' trigger, I was a little pumpthatass bit jealous of pumpthatass how easily you pumpthatass were able to just let yourself pumpthatass go. That's something I want pumpthatass to experience first pumpthatass hand."
"You will," she promised. "I owe you a payback or two," she added, grinning slyly pumpthatass.
I looked over join at Meg. She was sitting pumpthatass in the pumpthatass passenger seat quietly, looking pumpthatass out the side window. "Goodnight pumpthatass Gracie," I said.
"Good question. The answer pumpthatass, as in so many cases when you're pumpthatass dealing with pumpthatass the pumpthatass mind, is that it depends on the pumpthatass individual. Post hypnotic suggestions have a lot in common with classical conditioning, in that the learned responses have to be reinforced periodically or they pumpthatass will pumpthatass be forgotten. Exactly how long that takes depends on how strongly the suggestion was reinforced, and how willing pumpthatass the subject is pumpthatass to pumpthatass respond. For example ..." she looked over at pumpthatass me pumpthatass. "Patrick pumpthatass, what pumpthatass was the trigger phrase you used last week to put Meg pumpthatass in trance?"
"So how often join do you have to pumpthatass practice to pumpthatass keep pumpthatass that from happening?"
"How does that feel, Patrick?"
"Okay," she said pumpthatass. "Let pumpthatass's make a couple pumpthatass of changes. Meg, start with your voice. It join sounds like you're trying very hard to keep it smooth pumpthatass and low pumpthatass. That creates tension, which Patrick can hear. Try to just relax along with him, even let yourself slip into a pumpthatass light trance if you want pumpthatass to; the relaxation will come out in your voice and help put him pumpthatass at ease too.
"Don 't help," she said firmly. "That's not your job. In fact, let's give you pumpthatass something else to join do." Carol left us long enough to pick up her organizer and retrieve a small laminated card from a section in pumpthatass the pumpthatass middle. She handed the card pumpthatass to Meg. "Try this one, it's very good for situations like this join."
"Oh, yes," she said. "Lights out, darling pumpthatass." My eyes fell closed pumpthatass again and I felt myself drifting join away.
My eyes jerked open again, but pumpthatass it took me pumpthatass a second or two pumpthatass to join before I could comprehend what was happening. "Wow ," I started to say, but then I heard Meg's voice and felt myself dropping into the pumpthatass darkness again.
We were both clean and pumpthatass dressed, so I volunteered pumpthatass to do the honors. When join I pumpthatass opened the door from the main training room to the lobby pumpthatass area, my classmates pumpthatass gave me a pumpthatass standing ovation. At first I pumpthatass wanted to find a corner and just pumpthatass disappear, but they were all very good-natured about the unscheduled interruption. Carol led them all back into the pumpthatass main room pumpthatass for the rest of class pumpthatass.
I checked with Meg pumpthatass and she didn pumpthatass't object - "It pumpthatass's a little pumpthatass late to get modest now" was her reasoning - so I took the pumpthatass floor and explained what had happened. I told them a short version of the pumpthatass Tuesday afternoon story, emphasizing the suggestions I had made over the phone and the accidental delay. Then I related the idea I'd pumpthatass had in the car, and the suggestions I'd given Meg pumpthatass during the trip.
Meg came up and hugged me tightly, which brought another pumpthatass round of applause from the group. Under cover of pumpthatass that pumpthatass sound pumpthatass, she whispered a quick message into my ear: "I pumpthatass'll get you back, my love. Count on it ." I could see pumpthatass the wheels turning when I looked into pumpthatass her face a moment later.
"Probably. Assuming there isn't a physical problem that would prevent it, the male erection pumpthatass is a simple matter pumpthatass of blood flow, which is certainly pumpthatass something the subconscious mind can control pumpthatass. But you still pumpthatass have pumpthatass to watch your language - don't just tell him to 'get hard', he might just stand there and pumpthatass clench all of his muscles. Tell him join that he will feel highly aroused and develop a stiff, firm erection. "
With no more questions, it was time for the women to put their mates back into trance and try their own erotic suggestions. Meg jumped pumpthatass up first and pumpthatass went over to Jim. I started to join her, but she waved me away. They spoke quietly for a few minutes, then Meg gave him pumpthatass a quick peck on the pumpthatass cheek and pumpthatass came back pumpthatass to me grinning ear to pumpthatass ear. "Ready pumpthatass?" she asked tauntingly.
That maddening, naughty grin swept over her face one more time. "I thought you pumpthatass'd never join ask," she said. "Would you like a virtual blowjob?"
It was Meg at her artful best, without pumpthatass doubt the pumpthatass most intense pumpthatass, arousing thing I'd ever felt. That Meg was not actually sucking me off, but rather sitting in the driver's pumpthatass seat chuckling as pumpthatass she listened to my moaning grow more and pumpthatass more out of control, actually made the situation more erotic pumpthatass for me pumpthatass. "Oh, God pumpthatass," I breathed, "This is unbelievable."
"Glad you like it ," she said smugly. "Let me know when you've had pumpthatass enough."
"Incidentally, I've got pumpthatass a join few stops to make pumpthatass on the way..."
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